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can a “moment” last four years?????
Hey…it has been a while since I last wrote and I apologize for my lethargy. I have been enjoying nights with D and unable to quantify exactly where this thing is going. I talk to friends about it and...
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why do women overthink GOOD things????
I recently had a conversation with a good friend of mine who I BELIEVE may have been a man in another life. I’m not a yogi or a Buddhist but really…this girl is half man (but truly…a woman any man...
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Just say NO.
As a mother, I work hard every day to teach my children right from wrong. No…is a word we, as humans, never love to hear. Kids especially hate hearing NO when they want something bad. I remember one...
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she’s coding……CLEAR. STAY CLEAR.
911-what is your emergency? Oh…it’s YOU again. Anyone have a friend who always seems to be in crisis emotionally? I’m talking about the girl who calls EVERY time her boyfriend and her get into a nasty...
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what to do when he says….Baby….YOU GOT BACK.
Four years down the dating road, I hit a stumbling block with D. One night while on the couch, he announced rather abruptly that he was going to start a workout routine to get back in shape. I’d watch...
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walking on a treadmill…right…down…to the city…again.
This week, I moved into a beautiful 100 year old farmhouse. It is adorable and significantly less money than my former residence. I love it. I guess I chose it on my own, believing somehow that if I...
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rub my feet, cut my toenails….
The first time I knew there was a cultural difference between D and me was when he boastfully retold a story about his father’s wife cutting his father’s toenails while company had been visiting. Yes,...
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It is NEVER appropriate for a GIRL to say the “C” word…….(says every man on...
Four years, eight months and some odd days and months, D and I have danced through life as a couple. Hot, Cold, On, Off, Up, Down, Over, Out……we have done it all. Still, our passion for one another...
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“D”manding more in the game of LIFE.
As you all know by now, I am an assertive girl with a soft spot for a man I call D. He has been in my life a very long time and it is once again getting to be time to make some decisions on this twisty...
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Heartbreak Hotel….
Hey..sorry I’ve been away for a while. With the move and home renovation going on, there hasn’t been much time for blogging. Today, though, I felt the need. Things with D have been great. I have...
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goodbye. 2013. hello. ME.
Last night was new years eve and D and I planned to spend it together..alone. Nothing thrills me more than a few hours alone with D. Time to relax, unwind and leave the pressures of life all around us...
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tears fears and tummy aches.
It has been three days since D and I met at the cold deli where he divulged that his plans for the future didn’t really include me. I have been scouring the internet for any insight that will help me...
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missing “D” little things.
I realize I am only a few days into D and I taking some time apart, but it feels like weeks. The days seem longer than usual. I am doing my best to get through each moment of the 24 hours, minute by...
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the grass is greener…or is it?
I read a blog recently about an unofficial syndrome plaguing relationships nationwide. The phrase is age old but this, the first time I saw it referred to as a virtual sickness. Yet, I believe it...
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the truth about “d”ating….
I have been pounding the keys hard today and decided that some insight into dating might be a great thing. I left my marriage five years ago with no intent of falling in love…ever. D was my friend and...
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“D”-day.
I’m up and ready to take on this day with a whole lot of anxiety for seeing D later. I am really not sure seeing him is a good idea. I am struggling in a very big way and afraid the rules every self...
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“D-”layed. :(
I just got a call from D and he has delayed our meeting, as I thought he might. He knows I don’t have my kids this weekend and has requested we meet Saturday morning for breakfast. I can’t take much...
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“d”fining moments.
I’ve been a bit of a debbie downer this week and woke up this morning with a sense of renewal and growth. It is weird. I bet by nightfall I’ll be a puddle once more but for now, in this “d”fining...
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“D”less but not hopeless…
Today I worked hard on me. Lunch with a friend, the gym, errands…trying desperately to regain some normal. My tummy feels better today knowing tonight I am heading out with some friends to celebrate my...
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love letters, I love you’s and sexts?
Last night while out with a few friends, my phone went off with the most generic, ridiculous text from D I may have ever received. It read, “hope you had a fun day”. He couldn’t have been drunk as it...
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